Technological Facade

With the advent of e-mail, face book, twitter, and text messaging, we have fallen into the trap of substituting technology for face to face relationships.

We have found it easier at times to hide behind the screen. It doesn't take as much courage to write a scathing editorial or a confrontational message when we don't have to be in the room with the person. Technology can't interpret tone or perceive body language, or give us a hug.

I have witnessed in the last 3 years, churches who use the web and other forms of technology very effectively to communicate to their constituency. Technological advancements have been a tremendous blessing for sure in getting out the message of the gospel. However I have also seen the devastating effects of those who use e-mail and face book as a tool of control and gossip in the local church. Bulk e-mails can give a very angry or critical person an avenue of venting and fostering a selfish agenda to a much broader audience with just the touch of a button. Even a well intentioned e-mail in the hands of the wrong person can end up being misinterpreted because of our tendency to read between the lines.

So what is the solution?

- We need to teach our people that technology can enhance "body life" but is no substitute for it.

- We might need to pray before we press send.

- We need to ask ourselves if we are using a quick e-mail to avoid a relational connection that maybe God wants us to have.

- We need to ask ourselves if are we using e-mail as a shield of cover, because we don't have the courage to go face to face?

Praise God for all the new modes of keeping in touch. But let's remember that there is no substitute for a literal touch.