Vulnerability

Let me begin with a quote from a great book called "Getting Naked" by Patrick Lencioni.
"Vulnerability.  It is one of the most undervalued and misunderstood of all human qualities.
Without the willingness to be vulnerable, we will not build deep and lasting relationships in life.  That's because there is no better way to earn a person's trust than by putting ourselves in a position of unprotected weakness and demonstrating that we believe they will support us.  Yet society encourages us to avoid vulnerability, to always project strength, confidence, and poise.  Although this is certainly advisable in some situations in life, when tit comes to  important, ongoing relationships, it stifles our ability to build trust."

In order for us to be vulnerable as ministry we must get over 3 basic fears:  The first is the fear of losing people.  We are often afraid if we show weakness that people will not follow us.  On the contrary people respect honest humility.

Secondly there is always a fear of being embarrassed.  None of us like to make mistakes but it is always better to admit them and take responsibility for them.  I don't know about you, but I have great respect for those who are willing to admit they messed up rather than covering it up or blaming somebody else.

Finally the fear of feeling inferior.  None of us like to admit that we don't have all the answers, especially when people are counting on us for advice.  Unfortunately we are all too often concerned about protecting our intellectual pride and maintaining our social status.

Why do I bring this up?  Too many pastors and leaders are insecure enough not to make themselves vulnerable, when in reality we can best emulate Jesus when those opportunities confront us.

After all didn't almighty God become a man?